Friday, January 13, 2012

Changing A Life

I'm about to do it again, but in a small way.

Four years ago I totally changed my life by making a move from Alabama, where I was born and raised, to the New York City area, where I have felt the most at home in my life. I lived in Hoboken for one solid year before I decided to revisit the South again, first for two weeks, and then for the month of February. Then last year I went home in January for a month. When I got back to Hoboken it was still bitter winter--blizzards and freezing temps--and that weather lasted until the end of March. I decided to do the smart thing and take the months of February and March in southern Alabama from then on.

And then came the winter of 2011-12, astonishingly pleasant and mild. A freak snowfall came on October 1, but melted away, and the rest of the season we've had no brutally cold days or nights (or, if it was below freezing at night, I slept through it in my cozy little place).

Never mind. The plans have been made. The cottage has been reserved, a rental car requested, and old friends have been told of my imminent arrival Feb 1. Now I have to get out of my New Jersey state of mind and into my Alabama one. There is more than jet lag involved. I'm not ready for some football, although no doubt there will be some, nor many of the other activities that I know I'll run into no matter how I try to escape. I'll take some books, I'll visit with some friends, and maybe have a surprise or two. I'll be changing my life, but only for two months, after all.

It won't be all that cold there--but thank goodness it won't be summer-hot either. Azaleas and wisteria will bloom. The bay will softly welcome me with its constant sound track of gentle waves. There will be sea food and grits. There will be comfort and smiles. Everybody will tell me how happy they are. The people who hate me just will avoid me and I will see many admirers and supporters. I shall avoid controversy. I shall stay on my diet. I shall continue to visit the gym four days a week.

And I'll bask in pretty days and pleasant weather. I'll see a local play or two and join a group of friends at the movies. I'll gab and gossip over lunches of salad and have the occasional cup of tea with family members.

And I'll start posting on my other blog soon--I hope you'll join me there. I'll be in Hoboken until Feb 1 and maybe run into you before I go. If not, I'll see you in April, when the flowers are in bloom and there is little chance of a blizzard.


Jerry Andersen said...

Sounds great. The hell with your diet, don't pass up that fried chicken and hush puppies. Remind them, yet again, who won the Civil War.

Mary Lois said...

I shall be as austere as possible. It's the biscuits that get to me. And mashed potatoes and gravy. There's also gumbo and barbecue. Those are diet foods, right? As to the Civil War, I think I'd best keep quiet. A furtive vacation, sneaking biscuits into the cottage and avoiding politics.

Steve said...

Enjoy every minute! And pictures, post pictures now and then, so that we in the northeast may live vicariously in your experiences. Your timing is perfect this year, the weather is going to turn for the worse any day now. Hopefully when you return spring will be returning as well.

JudyMac said...

From a Southern girl -- You can take the girl out of the South, but you can never take the South out of the girl. Enjoy every minute while you're there and return to Hoboken with some good tales to tell.

Nan said...

Wishing you a wonderful time in the warm weather!

Mary Lois said...

I've made the move--for a pic of the cottage I'm in and my reaction to the town at this point, visit my blog at at once.